Some people are lucky, I mean they are born with an Angel’s face while there are some like me who are not so lucky. Honest intentions are not visible to people who constantly judge you & try to pull you down at every possible opportunity ALWAYS!! At every point of life, be it personal or work, I am bound to get judged for being fearless & badass.
Although these things are too pitiful to pull me down BUT to be honest, it does create a little stir within & it does take time to get back to your shameless self.
So, Let me quickly share some tips to help you feel better & move on:
1. Don’t seek opinions: As long as you know what you are doing & it doesn’t hurt the other person, don’t ask others what they think about you. They are free to create opinions & there is no rule or compulsion to hear that.
2. Keep your vision clear: There will be a lot of people who will take the credit if things go in your favor & double the people to blame you if things don’t go as planned. Just keep your mind & vision clear. Your inputs, your role, your efforts in a focussed manner because at the end of the day, you will be the best judge of whatever comes your way & how you handle it.
3. Stay Positive: Read darling Read!! There are times when you need to seek external help & guidance in order to keep going. So, I highly recommend you to read self- enriching books OR consider seeking professional help, if ever required.
4. Know your Strengths: Nobody knows you as you do (does this statement even make any sense?;)) Be Aware of your strengths & If you know what you are good at and what your setbacks are, you’re less likely to be affected by what others say or think about you.
I hope these little points help you. I practice writing on a daily basis about things or situations I am proud of getting through & honest self talks about how a certain situation could have been handled in a better manner. This helps me become more open to criticism or judgments that I come across & helps me stay afloat with life with enthusiasm & a positive mindset.
I truly hope that society gradually learns to accept whatever we are & how we choose to act in a given situation or whatever we plan to do with our life at the end of the day.
Read the blog Overcome your fears which is really helpful.