Have you ever noticed a child lacking maturity, compassion, and insight? We are sure you might have. The major reason behind this mental and physical agony and trauma is the toxic relationship between parent and child. Toxic parenting affects the mental and general welfare of the children and can cause long-lasting mental problems and trauma. Therefore, we need to check such dysfunctional parenting patterns to foster a healthy relationship with children and gift them a happy childhood.

What Is Toxic Parenting?

In an emotionally healthy relationship, parents understand the feelings of their children and nurture them with love and care. They encourage their children to follow their dreams and support them to climb the ladder of success. Parents apologize when they make mistakes and discuss the problems with their children. But, toxic parenting operates on dysfunctional rules, critical controlling, and abusive behavior.

Parents often fail to realize that such an upbringing hiding behind the excuse of “tempering the character” can lead to an unusual amount of psychological damage that will necessitate a lifetime of therapy.

Many children who are raised through repetitive abuse, loathing, judgment, and criticism for their behavior, personality, or performance are demoralized and have low confidence.

Are you a Toxic Parent?

As a parent, you are supposed to be the caregiver of your child. But if you see your child behaving adversely, it’s time to look into the mirror and discover what is going wrong. Maybe, it’s your parenting technique. Here are some signs that show that you are a toxic parent.

#1. You are self-centered or Selfish

Yes, you have all the rights to spend the #me-time, but ignoring your child’s needs is unacceptable behavior. Some parents are self-absorbed, unavailable, selfish, or uncaring when it comes to their children’s needs.

#2. Emotionally Reactive

We all have emotions and we react according to them. Toxic parents are unable to control their emotions leading to emotional outbursts and unpredictable behavior. They often overreact, become dramatic, or exaggerate incidences.

#3. Controlling Behavior

Toxic parents are over-controlling and they exert power and control on their children. They refuse to accept the child as he is and invade their child’s privacy. They even take decisions on their behalf without consulting.

#4.Abusive Behavior

Toxic parents make cruel racist jokes, giving rise to sexual advances towards the spouse and embarrass the children. Consuming drugs, involving in illegal activities, and abusing spouses in front of children can be emotionally challenging for the kids.

How to Stop Toxic Parenting

In case you are a toxic parent, there’s a way out to heal and move forward. Here are some tips that will help you out

1. Be a Bigger Person

Parents are grown-ups. So, apply the advantages of maturity to breaks the silence, extend the olive branch, and work towards restoring healthy communication after a fight with your child.

2. Respect your Children

Imposing your will on your child can damage their senses. Let them choose their activities and supporting and cheering them in their achievements and failure helps build a strong bond.

3. Communicate

Sitting with your child and talking to them about any unwanted or unpleasant behavior always helps. Instead of yelling without ever stopping to get their children’s side of the story doesn’t help in the long run.

4. Handle Responsibly

A parent’s job is to raise a child capable of being an independent adult. So, start with giving them small age-appropriate responsibilities that they can handle. This trust will help to build their self-confidence and get a sense of achievement.


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